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Diamantino Almeida's avatar

I want to thanks Roman Nikolaev, for your question. I adapted your question to one of my chapter of the book I'm writing, Leadership as a Verb, and wrote this essay. This has open for me a pandora box.

Roman Nikolaev's avatar

You are very welcome :) I enjoy your essays, and happy that my thinking contributed to yours.

Diamantino Almeida's avatar

Likewise. I feel that hearing what others think, it's a great way to keep us together and express ourselves. What a small question brings...

Diamantino Almeida's avatar

The keys on my laptop are oily from my fingertips. I am watching a single wasp hit the glass of the window. I am finishing a new essay.

But part of me keeps suggesting I delay it. I want to allow my previous work to breathe.

Who are you without the title - https://newsletter.diamantinoalmeida.com/p/who-are-you-without-the-title

I want to stay for a little longer. I want to allow more people to read it. I want those who have read it to re-read it again. Without the FOMO.

We talk about titles and roles. We are bombarded with fear from Mustafa Suleyman, Elon Musk, Sam Altman, Mark Zuckerberg, and Dario Amodei. I could probably list a lot more.

But this is not about them. They are just behaving in a way the system allows. They should still be accountable for spreading fear.

But we must look at the system. We must rewrite it. We should make these outcomes unthinkable for everyone.

I still ask what happens when the only thing left is the sound of your own breath. Who are you when the title is gone. Is there enough honey and bread and wool in your life to keep you warm.

Or are you just a ghost in a corporate hallway.

Workplace Rewired's avatar

This resonates.

As children we are still unboxed. ’Child’ is the only title we carry, and inside that space we can be anything. In those early years we create with the whole body: we run, jump, draw, imagine.

Later, most systems narrow that space. School and work gradually move us from body to head. We sit, we think, we produce. Titles appear.

And slowly the title begins to stand in for the person. Which is why the question you ask - who we are when the title disappears - can feel so unsettling.

Diamantino Almeida's avatar

Indeed, as we get older, society forces us into boxes like school or jobs. We stop moving and creating. Instead, we just sit and think. It's unsettling because it make us think hard about some truths.

Diamantino Almeida's avatar

I’ve been spiralling down a research rabbit hole lately, due to this article I wrote, and the more I dig, the more uncomfortable the questions become. I wanted to share a few investigation notes with you all because it’s completely changed how I view my Monday mornings.

What I’ve discovered is that our obsession with "what we do" isn’t just a social habit it’s a historical hangover. During the Reformation, this radical idea emerged that worldly labour was actually a religious duty, where success in your job was seen as a sign of grace or character. Fast forward to today, and we’ve mostly stopped working for God and started working for our own identity, but that crushing moral weight never actually left us.

It’s led to some pretty sobering realisations I’m currently chewing on. I’m starting to see that when people ask "what do you do," it’s often just a subconscious way to calculate how much respect to give us an efficiency tool for a world of strangers. Because we’re told our careers are the result of our choices and talent, we've fallen into the trap where our career becomes our essence. Answering with a job title is a safe, clinical defence mechanism it protects our inner selves from strangers by giving them a "file" to put us in so we don't have to show them who we actually are.

The scariest part of this investigation, though, is realising how fragile this makes us. When we define ourselves by our jobs, we build our identity on shifting sand. If you are your job, then losing that job means literally losing your self. It explains why retirement or lay-offs feel less like economic shifts and more like existential deaths. I’m trying to learn how to be a person again, not just a set of professional functions.

Diamantino Almeida's avatar

If we imagine that somehow automation systems can really replace our labour. The question I keep going is.

Why automation systems are convincing companies in replacing us with mindless chips? Why do companies or some don't want human in the equation?

Diamantino Almeida's avatar

I have been down a research rabbit hole since the 10th March, and want to share three things I found that nobody is saying clearly.

The Federal Reserve Bank of Dallas published something in February that stopped me. AI is not threatening experienced workers as much as we think. It is substituting for entry-level workers while complementing senior ones. The traditional career path, start at the bottom, do the codifiable tasks, slowly build tacit knowledge, become senior, is now cost-ineffective for companies to maintain.

The generation arriving now did not fail to climb the ladder. Someone removed the bottom rungs before they arrived.

The second thing. Brookings published an analysis of who can adapt to AI displacement. Comprehensive research. But they wrote this line explicitly in the methodology: the analysis does not capture the full welfare costs of displacement, specifically naming "the loss of meaning and identity that work provides." They set it aside because it cannot be measured.

The entire research apparatus studying this problem has agreed not to count the thing the essay is about.

And three days ago the Washington Post published something that named the thing underneath all of this. The contradictions in the data are significant. Studies directly contradict each other. And the gap between what is actually known and "everyone's understandable hunger for certainty" is enormous.

The certainty is not describing reality. It is performing a function. Keeping people from asking the question Roman asked.

What am I here for.

Diamantino Almeida's avatar

I wanted to post the next essay today, as a continuation of the last one. I am getting such great feedback from people who relate to it, so I will leave this essay for another week. I will post the second part next Tuesday. I am researching this topic more, and I think I will write another three essays about it. My apologies to anyone expecting a post today.

I keep wondering how a system that gave us a role can be the same system that takes our identity away. Is this what we really want? Why do we accept the claims of big tech, and who are they to tell us who we are or who we should be? Who made them the masters of our destinies?

Thank you so much for all your support.

Diamantino Almeida's avatar

The prequel is live, have a read:

There is a word in Portuguese, saudade, that does not translate cleanly into English. It is the feeling of longing for something you may never have had, or something you had and lost, or something you are not sure ever existed at all. A Portuguese person will tell you it is in the blood. Carried, inherited. The particular ache of a culture that has spent centuries leaving and returning and leaving again, never quite sure which shore is home.

https://newsletter.diamantinoalmeida.com/p/they-did-not-accidentally-make-work

Steve Wohlenhaus's avatar

This is a great question to do an internal check-in with yourself from time to time. For me, it's not about the title, I have worn a lot of hats and lived many experiences in my life. It really boils down to how do you feel about how others see you and comparing that with how you see yourself. You probably fit into more that one category in the workplace...it doesn't do any good to stop your growth and only answer to one.

Diamantino Almeida's avatar

Hi Steve, the check-in instinct is exactly right and I am glad it landed that way.

The place I want to sit with you is the comparison frame. How others see you versus how you see yourself. I wonder whether that comparison is itself part of the structure. If the question requires others perception as a reference point, the answer is still organised around the outside.

What would the question look like if others were not part of it at all?

Diana's avatar

Excellent post as always :) I do not want to sound like I am contradicting your points, and in a manner maybe I do ;) The future is here. Capitalism cares about money, not people. The system will not save us, we need to save ourselves. And the only way there for me is by working on ourselves. Our core believes at what can we do and what not. What is stopping us. Our core believe on how resilient are we, no matter the years. I fear that this might sound like toxic positivity, and it is not. We need to start building resilience on our own believes about ourselves, not only in our hard skills, in the years to come. Because, eventually it all comes down to us, to how we are going to approach any given situation in life :) The change has started, we need to be able to adjust ;)

Diamantino Almeida's avatar

Hi Diana.

We need to contradict what is out there, and I am not free from that either. You are right that capitalism focuses on profit because that is its purpose. The trouble is that we have embraced that same ideology in our own lives. We do have a choice, but we need to make it together. The "each person for themselves" approach is just divide and conquer. We cannot escape this system alone. Like you said, we must build resilience by working on ourselves, but we should not do it in isolation. Just like in the past, we will change things. Convenience only takes us so far. Thank you for your comment. Please know that refuting points is a welcome part of this conversation.

Skill to Income by Yusup's avatar

This line stuck with me: “The role was the container. What he was losing was what the container had been holding.”

AI may automate functions, but the deeper disruption is psychological, as people realize their identity was built on something replaceable.

Diamantino Almeida's avatar

It’s deeper than we thought. Perhaps a blip in our society and some of our beliefs about how we actual see ourselves today.

Raghav Mehra's avatar

The distinction between process people and results people is something I haven't seen named anywhere else. Roman's question — "what am I here for?" — is the one most people are avoiding. Thank you for not letting us avoid it!

Diamantino Almeida's avatar

Thank you, Raghav. Indeed, we are accepting that AI will take our jobs, but in my view, that is not an approach that suits us. Roman’s question, 'What am I here for?', speaks volumes. Besides being also a philosophical point, it is an honest conversation that we need to have with ourselves and others. In Western society, we were told that our jobs define us, and now that same system is saying we will no longer have a job. It is scary, but it also suggests that the system we currently operate within was never intended to give us an identity.

Raghav Mehra's avatar

Thats a good point, Diamantino! Maybe we need to be defined more than just "what our job title" suggests. And AI probably, if anything, exposed this identity question, rather than just take the headlines for job disruptions.

Diamantino Almeida's avatar

Yes, I do think GenAI is exposing this, or making us now question, because until this moment we only thought about, if I lose my job, what will be my next job. Now the next don't feel like a possibility. I don't blame tech, but the business models behind it. You can imagine, how this benefit certain companies, not paying wages, paying taxes, erasing human rights at work, among many other things.

Anna | how to boss AI's avatar

Agreed. Although I think people still identify with work as a profession that gives them status and recognition, so letting that go will take some mindset shifting. The systems are fundamentally outdated to even address some of the challenges we will encounter with shifting how we work and what’s really a value-added.

Diamantino Almeida's avatar

Indeed, we still operate in a secular system. I'm not sure how we could change the system, perhaps by simply identifying it by what it means to us, and go from there. It's a complex situation, but needs to be discussed.

Roman Nikolaev's avatar

Thank you for taking time to deeply think about my questions.

The effect on the new generation who is now entering the work force is indeed something worth thinking about.

I can imagine it feels very uncertain now for these folks.

My personal answer to this, that doing work for people with people is the answer. Empathy, human touch and working as a group cannot be automated (or so I hope). These are timeless skills which are worth investing into.

Diamantino Almeida's avatar

The instinct you are describing is one I share. And I think you are right that genuine human connection is not something a model can replicate. Not really.

What I keep sitting with is a slightly different question. Not whether empathy can be automated. But whether the systems being built are designed to value it.

An organisation that rewards speed, output, and measurable performance has always found ways to route around the things that are slow and hard to count. Empathy takes time. Trust takes time. Working with people rather than through them takes time. Those things were undervalued before AI arrived.

The new generation you are thinking about will need those skills. I just wonder whether the rooms they are walking into were built to recognise them.

What gives you confidence that the organisations hiring them now are actually investing in that direction?

Roman Nikolaev's avatar

I think organizations don’t have another choice. Even before AI, culture was the competitive advantage. Organizations with less politics and high psychological safety outperformed the ones with bureaucracy and backstabbing.

The org didn’t need to have a great culture to be a leader - just better than the competition. I know it is a strong claim, but it is my experience.

The organizations that didn’t get their culture right slowly declined; the bigger the organization, and the stronger its brand, the more time it takes. But it happened nevertheless.

Now that we have turbocharged the change (at least in some industries), the process of rise and decline will accelerate.

These soft skills we talk about become differentiators, which will define if the organization will win or lose. I might be too idealistic. Time will tell.

Diamantino Almeida's avatar

I have seen the same pattern. Organisations with genuine psychological safety move faster, recover better, and hold onto the people worth keeping. But this market is not fair. That’s why we even have investments the bet against the decline of entire countries.

Where I find myself hesitant is the assumption underneath the argument. It requires the market to punish bad culture reliably enough and quickly enough to change behaviour. And the last thirty years suggest the market is more patient with dysfunction than we would like it to be.

Some of the most extractive, political, and psychologically unsafe organisations I have encountered were also the most profitable. Not despite the culture. Sometimes because of it. Fear moves fast. Compliance scales. Backstabbing is, in certain structures, an efficient way to concentrate decision-making.

What GenAI may do is accelerate the decline you are describing. But it may also turbocharge the extractive models first, before the reckoning arrives.

The organisations worth building are the ones you describe. I just wonder whether the market will reward them in time, or whether the people inside them will have to hold that belief on faith for longer than seems fair. Because at the moment the reward is extraction and we need a system that rewards non-extractive systems.

Roman Nikolaev's avatar

I hope it makes sense to you. I don’t know what will happen, nobody does. We are just guessing, but it is fun :)

Diamantino Almeida's avatar

It makes sense, and indeed solutions are abundant, but actions that another story.

Roman Nikolaev's avatar

Are these organizations from your past still doing well?

In my experience, the decline is slow but inevitable; the ones that are rotten inside will shrink and die unless they reinvent themselves.

Now the decline that used to take twenty years might happen in five.

If the organization sits on a big deposit of natural resources or owns critical infrastructure, they are well entrenched, but they at the same time become complacent, and then competition arrives, they will topple quickly.

Look at what happened to the American car industry, for example.

Regarding the profit of the first organizations. The question is maybe not, are these organizations ethical in a broad sense - the question is are they effective internally? Can people inside these organizations work well together?

Diamantino Almeida's avatar

Indeed we can question how effective internally these companies are. Most will reinvent themselves, we have seen that many times, and that's good. The system as we have it today, will promote an extraction model, justifying their methods by saying either we do this way or the hard way. When in fact we has consumers, citizens, individuals we can change dramatically how certain corporations behave. If we penalise companies that go against our dignity, destroy our environment, governments will put pressure as we can put pressure on governments. But this requires a change on our lifestyles. Are we ready for that? I'm not sure. Could this be the solution, I'm not sure either, but feels like a good starting point.

Roman Nikolaev's avatar

Just stumbled upon this article: https://substack.com/home/post/p-190363393

Especially this part in regard to our conversation.

The evidence on human-AI collaboration offers a counter-weight worth taking seriously. Garry Kasparov, writing in Harvard Business Review, drew on “advanced chess” competitions where teams used AI and humans together. The winning teams ran better processes, not better hardware. His framing: “Weak human + machine + better process was superior to a strong computer alone and, more remarkably, superior to a strong human + machine + inferior process.”

A separate MIT Sloan analysis published in June 2025 identified five human capability clusters where employment grew between 2016 and 2024. The framework is called EPOCH: Empathy, Presence, Opinion and judgment, Creativity, and Hope-based leadership. These are the parts of professional work where AI coverage is lowest, and where BLS growth projections remain strongest.

Of course, it is just an opinion. And there is the confirmation bias. But our discussion was fresh on my mind.

Roman Nikolaev's avatar

I am pessimistic about the current state of things, looking at where our world is heading.

But back to the original topic. I believe that teamwork and smooth collaboration will be the differentiator for businesses, and it is what young people should invest in.

Understand themselves, be curious, learn how to take responsibility, work with others, and learn how to lead themselves and others. These skills can be used for good or evil, but they are the key nevertheless when technical expertise get automated.