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To lead is to act without losing the humans. I write about worth, competence, and what remains when expertise is no longer scarce.
I am Diamantino. I spent twenty years in tech leadership, engineering, product, and everything in between. I have sat in rooms with CTOs who said things privately they would never say on stage. I have watched engineers become leaders. I have watched leaders remember they were human. I have also watched technology make choices that harmed people. And I have watched leaders look away.
This publication is for people who are tired of looking away.
Specifically, for the tech leader or engineer whose job is changing faster than their sense of who they are at it. Not the person who wants five ways to delegate better. The person who is sitting with a question they cannot ask inside their own organisation. A question like:
What am I here for, what is the worth of my skill, when the thing I was trained to do is being automated before I have finished becoming it?
What is the business model of AI actually optimising for, and who pays the cost?
Why does tech keep replicating the same broken patterns of power and control?
Is the speed worth what we are trading away?
You are not looking for someone who has all the answers. You are looking for a thinking partner who is asking the same questions you are.
That is what you will find here. Not frameworks. Not templates. Not the comfortable ideas about shared leadership that sound nice in a talk but crumble under pressure. Instead, four connected layers that form one cycle.
The Four Layers
Leadership as a Verb: The Essays
Every other Tuesday. 5,000 to 6,200 words.
The question. The diagnosis. The mirror that shows you the trap you are in.
What happens to your professional worth when the skill you built a career on, knowing things, having answers, holding expertise, stops being scarce. Not the optimistic version. Not the catastrophist one. The honest one.
What you get: you feel understood. You stay because someone finally named what you could not name yourself.
Practicing the Verb: The Practices
Every other Tuesday, in the weeks between essays. 1,000 to 1,800 words.
The motion. One specific action derived from the essay. One sentence to try. One boundary to hold. One question to ask instead of answering.
The essay asks the question. The practice moves toward an answer. A question you only think about stays inside your head. A question you act on changes who you are.
What you get: you feel the answer in your body, not just your head. You subscribe because the name of the publication is now true.
Patching the Verb: The Mechanics
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The deeper thinking about why the practice works, what the friction signals, how to build the habit so it becomes who you are, not just what you did once.
The essay asks. The practice moves. Patching explains why the motion works.
What you get: you pay because you have already been changed by the practice and want to understand why.
Behind the Verb: The Unfiltered Layer
No fixed schedule. No fixed length. Always free.
The curtain pulled back without a script. Raw thought before it is organised into an essay. A reaction to something that just happened. A correction of something I used to believe. The place where the polish drops because some things are only true if they are still a little unfinished when you read them.
What you get: proof. Everything else here is lived, not performed, and this is where you can see that for yourself.
What You Will Actually Find Here
Honest thinking, not resolution. Every post asks more than it answers. You will finish with more to sit with, not less.
Specific moments, not abstractions. One real story. A conversation I had. A decision I watched. A thing I realised about myself. Never generic advice.
Systemic analysis, not tips. I am interested in why things break the way they do. The economics underneath. The power structures. The choices that led us here.
The Mirror Test. I do not prescribe what I am not living. If I write about judgment, I show where mine failed. If I write about tool dependency, I show where the tool seduced me. If AI helped shape a piece, I say so. Transparency about the tool is itself an act of leadership.
How to Start
If you want to go further, the paid tier is for people who have tried the practices and want the mechanics beneath them. Not more content. Deeper analysis. Monthly live sessions. And the chat, where I post the questions the essays raise but do not answer, and reply personally to everyone.
Paid subscribers also get early chapters of the book I am writing in public, Who Are You Without the Title? The argument being built as it happens. The doubt. The cut paragraphs. The thinking before it is polished. It is not a fifth layer of the publication so much as a window into how the first one gets made.
The chat is not a forum. It is where people who are tired of carrying these questions alone find out they are not the only ones.
If you are already a paid subscriber, everything lives in your inbox. Patching the Verb arrives alongside the free posts. Book chapters come as they are drafted. The chat is always open.
One Thing About Me
I am figuring out what the next chapter looks like while building this publication at the same time. I tell you that not for sympathy. I tell you because this publication is about asking hard questions honestly. And that starts with me being honest about where I am.
I stopped believing that the answer was moving faster or being smarter. Now I am asking a different question. What is technology actually costing us? And what becomes possible when leaders stop pretending they have the answer and start asking the real questions together?
Someone is asking it too. I am.
And I would be glad to have you thinking about it alongside.
Welcome.
Diamantino
About the Author
Tino Almeida is a tech leader, coach, and writer reshaping how we think about leadership in a burnout-driven world. With over 20 years at the intersection of engineering, DevOps, and team culture, he helps humans lead consciously from the inside out. When he’s not challenging outdated norms, he’s plotting how to make work more human, one verb at a time.